I'm at the point now that I only play out occasionally, mostly fill-in stuff and jam nights, although we do still have a "Dad Band" that's been known to cover gigs for friends who've had to cancel at the last minute for various emergencies.
Frankly, while I love playing, I'm just tired and don't like to stretch myself thin anymore. My wife is not in good health and is unable to work. The local bar gigs don't pay much ($50-75 a man/night) and I'd rather stay home on weekends get caught up on the things the wife can't do. My 40hr/wk M-F day-gig pays the bills, so it's not like I need to gig for monetary reasons. From 2004-9 though, I was a gigging fool with a great band. Worked the 40hr/wk day-gig and managed somehow to squeeze in around 150 gigs a year (at $125 and up a gig!). Those were the days...
Frankly, while I love playing, I'm just tired and don't like to stretch myself thin anymore. My wife is not in good health and is unable to work. The local bar gigs don't pay much ($50-75 a man/night) and I'd rather stay home on weekends get caught up on the things the wife can't do. My 40hr/wk M-F day-gig pays the bills, so it's not like I need to gig for monetary reasons. From 2004-9 though, I was a gigging fool with a great band. Worked the 40hr/wk day-gig and managed somehow to squeeze in around 150 gigs a year (at $125 and up a gig!). Those were the days...