You may remember me telling the story of
the guitar player who didn't like my groovy blue bass. A number of responses said I was being thin-skinned and needed to get over it. Others said I should give him a chance since he was the new guy, just trying to fit in. And there were a few folks who said that his true-colors would eventually get the best of him.
Well, that last one happened at last night's practice.
It started a couple of months ago when we were recording an original. He showed up at the recording studio stoned. His tempo was off and his guitar was out of tune. None of his tracks were usable. We had to have someone else overdub all his guitar parts.
But then we played out a few weeks ago and he nailed it. He did a really great job. So we assumed maybe he's just not a studio kind of guy.
Fast forward to last night. The band leader asked him if he wanted to sing a tune. So he suggested 'Gimme Shelter'. Not really our style, but we played it and it worked. However, at the solos, we weren't sure if we were hanging on the root or playing the chorus chords. So the entire band hung on the root, like we were playing the verse. This obviously wasn't what this guitar player wanted us to play. So he glared at our lead guitarist, as if to say "What are you doing??"
(keep in mind, we've played this song once, so far). He then stopped the song and looked at the lead guitarist and said, "What are you doing? You've got to play the song!!"
We all looked around awkwardly. The lead guitarist was obviously angry at this outburst, but he bit his lip and we finished the tune.
After practice, I asked him
(the lead guitarist) if he was ok. He was not. But he kept his cool. Then the band leader walked up and said, "That guy's out! He doesn't fit in and he's dragging us all down." No one argued with him.
Today, I called the band leader to check in, now that everyone's cooled down a bit. He doubled-down. Even though the guy can play, he doesn't fit in with the vibe of our band. Regarding the outburst, he said, "We don't do that!" Once again, I didn't argue with him. He's 100% right.
Just goes to show you that talent only goes so far. Good musicians needs to have the proper social game for a band to work. We all love good-natured ribbing & giving each other a hard time. But we
never intentionally embarrass a member of the band... especially when they're doing nothing wrong.
I'm sure he's a nice enough guy... but we won't miss him.