Have you ever been banned from a band for stupid reasons?

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I've been banned from my band for a having a different political opinion.
Right now I still have a hard time dealing with those news, because... Well, that has nothing to do with my playing or anything related to music and it pisses me off to just ban me like that.
I guess the problem was that they consider themselves more as friends playing music than musicians being friends for the sake of music. Or is it a generational problem ? (I'm gen z)

They now have no bassist in the band (and seem chill about it), I don't even know how to feel about that whole situation anymore. And it's so hard to find musicians to play with... I'm starting at 0 all over again.

I really needed to vent this, I hope it's not too out of place.

Do any of you have common stories to share? (Or if you need to vent, or want to share advices, you can do it here)
If you cannot get along politically, then it’s hard to get along. I’ve seen families fall apart and friendships disintegrate over the past few years over politics. Bands are not immune to the current zeitgeist.

I got kicked out of a band once because the guitarist did not like what I was playing on one particular song. Everyone else in the band liked what I was doing on the bridge to this song, which by contrast to the rigid quarter notes I was playing in the verse had some ‘swing’ to it. But the guitarist demanded I hold the rigid quarter notes through the bridge too. He was anal about it and considered me a threat so, when the band voted that I should play the bridge my way, he kicked me out. It did not help that the girl singer was hitting on me, and the guitarist’s girlfriend was also hitting on me lol
 
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I was playing a band in which the drummer was a professional shoplifter and the guitarist a drug dealer.

When I told them I needed to take the summer off to go commercially fishing salmon which was my job, they fired me because I didn't take being a professional musician seriously. I was at a few rehearsals with another group but had to take two weeks off in March for herring fishing and wasn't welcome back into that band after that either.

But I am unabashadly and unapologetically left in my politics and if I found I was in a group with some right-wing loony I would happily say bye-bye. I'm already overtolerant with some right wingers in anothger endeavour I'm involved in and that is already too much to take.

Bon courage. Ça n'en vaut pas la peine.
 
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I'm closing this. Many people have posted "political reasons" without actually going into the substance of the disagreement, which is great. A few others have been more specific about the substance of the political or religious differences, and I worry that it will keep happening and there will be a bunch of rule violations, infractions and cleanup. Sorry y'all.
 
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