A Rolls sx21 will do what you ask. I can't say it's a great idea as you carry a whole lot of gear for little volume.
Bass to amp 1. Eq. Fx out to Rolls mini crossover. Return lows amp 2, highs amp 1 Fx return.
I'm going to suggest that you review your amp's owner's manual, it describes the signal routing for your amp.
Two ways to do this. The first and simplest way is to use a short 1/4" shielded cable from the first amp's effects send (preamp out) to the second amp's effects return (power amp in). Plug the 18's into one amp's speaker output and the 810 into the other amp's speaker output. The preamp on the first amp will be the one you use, the master volume on the second amp will be what controls the relative volume of the second. If you set the master volumes identically, the output power will be the same (assuming the same impedance).
The second way, using an active crossover, is to take the effects send of the first amp into the crossover input. The low out from the crossover will go to the effects return of the first amp and the high out will go to the effects return of the second amp. The 18's will connect to the first (low) amp and the 810 will connect to the second (high) amp.
Just be sure your 18's are 8 Ohm's, otherwise you run the risk of damaging your amp when paralleling 2 of them.
I would start with a crossover frequency of about 80Hz.
I suggest getting a xlr to 1/4 cable and use the direct out into the second genz shuttle... thats how i do it when im not using the ric!
Ive been thinking of trying this. My GAS budget is blown for now so instead of using a crossover could I just use the EQ's on amp 1 & 2 to keep the cabs fom mixing (I can pre-EQ out on my amp 1)?