i also am upset that people on TB do not trust anything other then paypal.
how do you make people trust you on here?
Alan, that is a horrible story indeed. Nobody really likes the bay and paypal forcing you to use their services. I guess it is something we simply must learn to live with.
A lot of TB'ers are really great guys and some might accept other payment forms other than Paypal if they see you are serious. And I guess if you explain them your situation and provide them with that positive feedback history, many of them will trust you.
Time and patience.
Start by buying/selling items that don't cost a fortune.