Curiously, our jam has been bigger than ever recently. 20+ w/ lots of newcomers. I suspect folk are desparate for things to do after last year.
I've been the only bass. Normally, I appreciated that. But w/ a big circle and folk unfamiliar w/ how to lead songs, it is A LOT of work. I find myself moving around the circle, so as to be able to key in on whomever is leading a song (however ineptly!) And I'm having to concentrate intensely on nearly every song. Just weird - I'm finding myself mentally AND physically exhausted after 3.5 hours, whereas I used to be able to go 5 hrs no problem
Yeah, I understand that thought. But to suggest a different facet, my wife plays fiddle, so until I picked up banjo 2 years ago, bass/fiddle was our standard combo. Yeah, it gets old just to hammer 1/5s and to force the fiddle to take lead on EVERY rep of EVERY song. So I used that as incentive to expand what I could bring to the table, taking leads, trying more varied accompaniments, using the bow... Can be a worthwhil echalenge.
And our string band started when I invited 1 mando picker over so we could work on tunes. He played mando/banjo/guitar, but I wanted to do more than thump behind him. The we invited a cello, and personnel changed over time. So, I'm just saying, it is WONDERFUL when the personnel is exactly what you prefer. But if you just tweak your mindset, you can find opportunities, challenges, and satisfaction from just about any combination of well-intentioned instrumentation.