Dad bands? Heck son, wait 'til you start playing with the grampa bands.
So you're saying it's fine that you don't have a reason to pick up your bass and play?
Could your occasional CL viewing mean you haven't quite completely given up on the idea?
If that's the case - What's your local jam scene like?
My personal experience with CL, and want ads in the era before the internet, has never been productive other than one time in 1983. Every time since then has been comical at best; ALL my productive gigs since then have been a result of networking, getting calls from people I knew, getting out and about on the scene.
Sunday nights here in DFW, there's a jam in Addison I try to make every 2-3 weeks. I've lost track of how many decent gigs with good musicians I've gotten from attending this jam over the past 15 years, including a nice weekly residence at another venue that lasted 3 years. Most recently, I picked up a gig this coming Saturday.
This was Sunday, June 9 - I stopped by on my way home from an afternoon gig. Musicians include University-of-Havana-trained-on-percussion drummer, Idalberto Perdomo, whom I work with whenever I'm so blessed.