So, yeah, in the real world, a good rule of thumb is that your cabs' power handling is equal or greater than your amp's power output, which is not a hard and fast rule if you're careful, but it's inadvisable to go with speakers rated less than half of your amp's output (at the relevant impedance, ie a 600w amp might be 300 at 8 ohms, so you could get away with a 150w 8 ohm cabinet IF you're really careful and don't go crazy with volume or bass EQ). The other rule of thumb is that bass speakers have a mechanical limit that's usually in the neighborhood of about 1/2 the thermal limit (ie the published RMS power handling). So if your speakers are rated less than twice your amp's output, you just need to be aware of that and not go too crazy with volume and/or bass EQ, and understand that knob position means nothing and you can be at rated output of the amp literally anywhere on the volume knob.
The other thing is to think of it with common sense. If you had an amp that could only put out 800w, and you could just hook up 2 cabs and they would each get 800w, you've essentially just doubled your power magically just by adding a cab. So obviously that's not correct and the speakers split the power. Otherwise people would just get 8 100w cabs and a single 100w head and be crazy loud.
The other thing is to think of it with common sense. If you had an amp that could only put out 800w, and you could just hook up 2 cabs and they would each get 800w, you've essentially just doubled your power magically just by adding a cab. So obviously that's not correct and the speakers split the power. Otherwise people would just get 8 100w cabs and a single 100w head and be crazy loud.