This gives me hope... that there are more exceptions to the rule than first appears!Well, I'm the band leader and my wife plays keyboard in my band, so we are the proverbial H/W team. We both are not young anymore, and I daresay we gathered some wisdom over the passed years, so there's virtually no drama in the band... but sometimes I still wonder what our bandmates are talking about behind our backs.
I'm glad there's no drama in your band (truly and honestly). I wish there hadn't been any drama in the band I was in... A band without drama is a great thing. I was in one of those in my 20s. Just 4 mates making music together, and audiences that enjoyed it!