Self-taught player of 50+ years here. We didn't have no fancy, schmancy, online resources. Learned by playing with records, over and over and over and over. </old man rant over>
This x1000.
I joined a band early on. You grow fast, but you eventually plateau somewhat. Working with an instructor helps to keep you growing. Looking back at it, the thing I would have done differently is work an instructor more regularly. Ultimately, I ended up taking instruction for 3 brief periods of over the years. It was always productive, and I still recommend it. I would have learned a lot more, a lot faster.
A good player doesn't necessarily make a good teacher. A good teacher must be a good communicator. If they're not focused on helping you become a better player, they're not a good teacher.
Hey, some of us have built entire careers on being not terrible. Seriously though, it sounds like you're developing a good foundation. There's nothing you can't do; there's just stuff you don't know... yet. There's also nothing that says you have to take years of instruction. You can always focus your studies on a specific topic or technique for a few weeks or months or however long it keeps you engaged and then go back to self-learning until you're ready for something else.
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Hey! Thanks a lot for the reply, I think you are right, and for the most part, i have been doing just the same. watching a lot of live concerts and trying to decypher certain grooves, licks, solo's and phraising that i really enjoy and speak to me. Doing just that has helped me a lot. I will for sure look into a good instructor and when the times comes, maybe a band.