Hmm. This might be a pointless and meandering post here, but I think it might have some relevance.
I like and dislike a great many musicians overall. Doesn't make me a bad person. Just makes me a person with an opinion (or, to some, opinionated!).
I cite an example of a great (to me) bass player- Scott Thunes (Frank Zappa, Fear).
He is a GREAT, in my books. He isn't highly technical (at least not in the world's sense of "technical"). He's not a Billy Sheehan or a Stu Hamm, or even a Geddy Lee), but he IS a seriously educated (classically trained) person, and thus obviously a great music reader (which was REQUIRED if you even wanted to audition for FZ's band).
He had HIS own opinions about HOW the bass should be played (and viewed) in a band that many people (even fellow FZ band members) found derogatory or just downright offensive.
Scott could intelligently and very successfully debate WHY he didn't agree with most people's idea of what a bass player should be and do in a band (thousand notes a minute, two handed tapping, slapping/popping that made little sense to the song). His attitude was to play whatever Zappa put in front of him.
Isn't it funny that in our own ways, we have a bit of that attitude as well?