Center Stage in Atlanta...last Autumn.
We came out of a killer performance! to find the drummer outside the front door doing a meet and greet...that's After the show. All I could think was "Who did HE piss off?" I happily paid him his well- deserved due. (The band had knocked it out of the park!) and then worked up nerve enough to ask if Graham as also going to come out, I'm a long time fan who would love to meet him, too "Stick around a bit. I can make that happen." 15 - 20 minutes later my friends are ready to go, and so am I. I kinda wave good bye to the drummer, and he breaks off his conversation to catch me by the sleeve and says "Here we go!" My wife and friend are following us through the bowels of the venue and he turns a corner, and so do I, and there's Graham Maby! A smaller / slighter guy than I'd expected. Of course, for the last 30 years I've perceived of him as a Giant...
Warm smile, firm grip, offer of a beer (I was driving or I would be bragging about 'havin' a beer with my buddy, Graham'...)!
It could be that I used the words "Soundtrack of our lives as a couple"...
We talked about where our basses fall across our torsos...I play mine up well higher than he does. I asked him about playing loud, angry incredibly Tight 1970s rock and then NAILING IT on Joe Jackson's Jumpin' Jive! I don't believe that I've ever heard a bassist who could have made that transition with so much authority and Swing, and aplomb! (A desert Island album for me...)
He asked about my guitar...my '73 4001. I have a pretty good rap about the day I bought it, and he was polite and attentive...laughed at all the right places. I asked him to autograph the ticket and he happily obliged. I told him about reading Joe's book "A Cure For Gravity", and how I remember J.J. saying that 'it wasn't until the day he met Graham Maby that everything coalesced.' He said his wife read the book and told him about it, but he hadn't read it himself...and it was time to go, and a security guy brought us back out through the tunnel, and we were an hour from home, and I was driving, so I am the DJ.
We listened to Beat Crazy, and most of Joe Jackson's Jumpin' Jive.